Thursday, April 12, 2012

Confirmed miscarriage

Dear Baby,

You will always be in our hearts even though we never got the chance to hold you in our arms. So many people rejoiced with us when they heard that you were the little trooper that stuck. You are so loved! It breaks my heart that we could only stand by helplessly as you left the safety of my womb. But we trust that God is good and faithful, and we are still going to praise and trust His plan for our family. He is going to do great things in your daddy and I as we get through the grief of losing you. 

Cuddles and kisses, 

Mommy </3


The Lord has given, and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the name of the Lord. 

28 comments:

  1. I cannot imagine what you are going through. I am so sorry for your loss. I pray that you and your husband find peace and comfort in God. He is the giver of all gifts. Love you and am praying for you during this difficult time.

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  2. Oh lord No, I am so sad for you guys and just so sorry! I can't even fathom your pain..Take Care!

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  3. Oh sweetie, I am so incredibly sorry. Even though I don't know you in real life, I have been praying for you guys for a long time and I will continue to pray for God's provision and comfort right now. Know you are covered in prayer...

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  4. I am so sorry. I'm praying for you and your precious baby.

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  5. Oh my sweet friend, my heart breaks for your pain. That baby was precious and dear to us all, and is so very loved. I'm so sorry you're going through this, and I wish I could help in some way. Please know that I'm praying for you and Ryan, and I'm here if you need a shoulder. Love you my friend <3

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  6. Oh Denay and Ryan, I am so sorry. My heart and my stomach are just aching. We will continue to pray that God's unfailing plan will continue to unfold. In our moments of our greatest weakness we can take comfort and think that Christ has made himself joint heir with us in suffering. John Stott in his book "The Cross of Christ" says "It is wonderful that we share in Christ's suffering...but it is more wonderful still that He shares in our suffering." Christ is joint heir with us not only of the glory and grace but also of the sufferings in which we are called to. We love you guys, we thank God for you and your example of one that perseveres through long suffering and comes out each time even more precious and beautiful because the Potter's hands are still molding and shaping. Hugs!!! Uncle Mario and Auntie Kellie

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  7. I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet little one. My heart breaks for you- reading this post makes me hate miscarriage even more than I already did... if that's possible. Praying for comfort & strength for you and your family.

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  8. So much love to you friend. E-hugs just aren't big enough but I'll try ((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))) Even though I'm far, I'm here if you need me.

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  9. I'm a stranger - in tears for you and your husband. There are no words.... I will keep you in my prayers. Your sweet little one is now in the arms of our heavenly father - please allow Him to embrace you too.

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  10. My sweet friend. I know there is nothing I can say to make it better, but I am so incredibly sorry. Sending all my love to you and Ryan.

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  11. We are so sad to hear the news of your miscarriage. We have no words of wisdom. Just know we are praying for you both and that our God and Father will give you the desire of your hearts. May you be comforted by Gods loving arms and the love of family and friends.

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  12. This precious one is alive and face to face, and one day there will be a grand reunion. Thank you for sharing this journey. It is helpful in ways you may never know. "Take my life and let it be consecrated, Lord to Thee."

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  13. We love you both and we are praying that in a time of devastating loss that you will find God's peace that surpasses our own understanding.

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  14. Oh, no... Denay... there are no words to convey how sorry I am for you. Your faith in the Lord through this is so admirable... I pray that He will strengthen you and comfort you beyond what seems possible. You and your hubby are on my heart and in my prayers!

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  15. I am so sorry for your loss, and can only imagine what you're going through. My best wishes for you and your husband.

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  16. Oh Denay... I know there is nothing I can say to ease your pain. My heart breaks for you and Ryan. I will be praying for you both.

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  17. I was so saddened to hear this news. I am praying.
    ~Sandy Anderson

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  18. I am so sorry. I can't imagine how you are feeling. Hugs!!
    <3

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  19. So sorry to hear this. You both will be in my prayers.

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  20. I'm so, so sorry. What awful news. I'm praying for you and your husband as well.

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  21. There are no words to take away your pain and disappointment. But I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I just found your blog and am so saddened to hear your news. You'll be in my prayers.

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  22. Sending love to you. God loves you and has a plan.

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  23. There are no words that will make you feel better, I just recently lost my baby at 12 weeks and it is the worst pain anyone no matter how far along has to go through, I am so so sorry for you loss. Please know you will be in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
    xoxo
    Alexis

    www.alexisandscottsjourney.blogspot.com

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  24. I am stopping by from Megan's blog. I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I cannot imagine what you are going through right now. Many thoughts and prayers for you and your husband at this time.

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  25. My Friends! I cried in joy when the lord gave u this baby and I cry in sadness in this moment of loss! Aaron and I are praying for peace and comfort beyond understanding. Love to you both!

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  26. I've been lurking on your blog for a while and am so sad that you're going through this. Very, very sorry for your loss. T&Ps are with you.

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  27. I have never commented but have been following you for a while. I lost at 5 weeks in January, similar story. I want you to know there is so much support out there and I'm so sorry for your loss. Blessing and love - M

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  28. Denay I just found your blog from pinterest and I am so, so sorry to hear of your loss. My husband and I have been walking through infertility for 3 1/2 years now. After Clomid, Femara, injectables and oh so many IUIs we moved forward with embryo donation. We did 2 FETs (4 embryos) and had early miscarriages both times. Oh my heart aches for you as you're experiencing this as well. After suffering so, so long experiencing that positive pregnancy test is shockingly joyful and exhilarating... and almost makes the pain of IF a thing of the past... and then, oh to hear the bad news... it's such a low low. I will be praying for you and your hubby as you wade through the aftermath.

    Your faith in the Lord through this time is encouraging. Praying you can hold fast to Him even as the storms of life are raging. Hang in there. :)

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